As far as most people are concerned, BDSM stands for Beatings, Dick-punches, and Shaking Mydamnhead at the thought of people needing to do that stuff just to get off. In reality, though, pain and injuries are just a very small part of the typical BDSM experience, which is ultimately all about intimacy. But then there are the… atypical experiences. I recently talked to Arya who likes to engage in more extreme forms of BDSM and this is what I’ve discovered: Continue reading